I said it

I finally said those words that Bobette has been waiting for me to say for three months (could be longer but she said them to me almost 3 months ago).   We were in a hotel in Niagara falls, I thought it would be romantic.   So I went for it.   There were follow-up questions on “why I took so long” and “when did I know”.   Those were tough to answer, I think I have wanted to say it for awhile but when she originally said it, I put too much power into the words, so much power that I was now scared to use them.     I was honest with her.   I told her although I feel this way, this doesn’t mean I want things to ramp up to a different level or anything.    I like to think that I have been showing her for awhile how I feel about her.    She knew, she just wanted to hear the words.   

And NO, I did NOT propose WIGSF!!!

#87 “101 Things to do before you die”  Conquer your fear

– Not sure what I am afraid of but you could say I was afraid of saying those words that I said to Bobette.   I might have checked this one off this weekend.    Or maybe I need to look deeper inside of myself for greater fears.


15 Responses to “I said it”

  1. DarcKnyt Says:

    That’s pretty awesome. The follow-up questions, IMHO, SUCK. I hate that. Just take it and be happy, willya? Dang. 😉

    Sounds like you guys had a decent weekend. The words, however, don’t mean anything unless we use them with meaning. As long as you meant them, they’re powerful words. Otherwise they’re just … words.

    Nice to know you can scratch one off your list without even trying, huh? 🙂

  2. whatigotsofar Says:

    How long have you two been living together?

    • Bob Says:

      I am in charge of sleeping arrangements for the long weekend. Keep making comment like that and don’t be surprised if you are bunking with Boston.

      • whatigotsofar Says:

        I’m still surpised he’s coming. It’s a long weekend. Shouldn’t he be out camping?
        I am sure if he is sleeping with you then he will be pitching a tent!

  3. whatigotsofar Says:

    How about some details about the weekend? (Other than the goings on in the hotel room with Bobette.) Nightclubs? Casino? IHOP? Where did you eat? What did you eat? I’m trying to live vicariously through you, dammit! I didn’t enjoy anything I ate all weekend. Give me something man!

  4. whatigotsofar Says:

    For example, Saturday night. I tried Hero Certified Burger. Pass. Totally not worth being an 8 dollar burger. The patty was average. It was of decent size. This was a big burger, but the meat was bland. The bun was awful. For the same money, I can get two yummy little burgers at Wendys and get them in under 60 seconds.

  5. Bob Says:

    I have had coupons for Hero Certified for awhile. I have never got around to using them. You should try “Jetsun’s Burgers”. Tasty stuff.

    • whatigotsofar Says:

      Where is Jetsun’s Burgers?

      • Bob Says:

        Two locations. One by my work, one by Bobette’s place.

      • whatigotsofar Says:

        If I’m in either of those areas (rare!!!), maybe I’ll give it a try. Until then, I’ll continue to make Wendys my regular burger.

        Fuck I’m hungry now.
        I am also very hungry. I skipped lunch and I am trying to eat my snacks instead. Not working.

        Hey man, any time you want to come to those areas, let me know. I am at work every day and I stop by Bobette’s sometimes on the weekends.

      • whatigotsofar Says:

        Skipped lunch too. Did have two breakfasts though.

  6. DarcsFalcon Says:

    Good for you!

    Are you happy you said them?

    I’d say you can mark this off the list. The list didn’t say anything about “greatest” or “deepest” fear, it just said fear. So, you did!

  7. Rachel Says:

    Its about damn time. One can’t be shagging the same person for as long as you have and not feel all lovey-dovey.
    Also, CONGRATS. 🙂

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